Early Childhood Decision Making

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Oct 022016
 

Since I’ve been debating whether or not to write about A: decision making throughout our lives or 2: a conspiracy theory that i thought up when i was both trying to rationalize with myself about who i was going to vote for for president in november, along with being only slightly inebriated, I’ve finally made a DECISION to write about decision making. So I’ve done some reading this week on the beginning: early childhood decision making.

In a study put out by Procedia: Social and Behavior Sciences (Whoever the hell that is), I’ve learned that they have come to the conclusion that decision making is a social process and moreover is a significant living skill which is LEARNED. This i can totally agree with. Although for myself, the best learning I’ve had in terms of making decisions is actually making them and more often then not learning that the decision was not perfect in either some small degree, some giant degree, or somewhere in between. Procedia, however, wants to attribute better decision making in people to teaching children decision making skills during their early childhood development, which makes sense to me, because like everything else, if we are religiously taught something at an early age (4-6) we will hold onto that teaching as more or less true throughout most of our, at least adolescent, lives. Obviously, this can be both good and bad, depending on what it is the child is being taught at this age.

I found a good example of Procedia’s stance makes sense on another website  that stated that thinking and reasoning skills are very important to making decisions and these are best learned “as their brain develops as well as through practice and experience”. So, these skills will help kids A: make decisions effectively as kids but also 2: help them prepare to make more important decisions as adults, as long as they remember to plan and make thoughtful choices. Making thoughtful choices means having knowledge of issues and of consequences along with being able to consider and take into account other people’s situations and feelings.

Another important aspect of making good decisions that is largely instilled at a young age is a person’s self esteem. the ability to feel ok and to say no when going against what a group wants is also important to making good decisions.

However, taking all of this into account, problem solving and decision making is a very mature thing to actually accomplish and doing this at a really young age is asking a lot of kids. This is why practice and experience is so important in making the right decisions for ones self. one of the most mature abilities to have in effective decision making is being able to manage one’s feelings. Sustaining this is a lot, almost too much to ask of a 4-6 year old. Which is why I can see how early childhood development is an important time to begin learning how to make good decisions, but when it comes time to making real, important decisions, there is nothing that compares to experience, and recollection.

www.kidsmatter.edu.au/families/about-behaviour/making-decisions/learning-make-good-decisions-and-solve-problems-early

http://ac.els-cdn.com/S1877042809004108/1-s2.0-S1877042809004108-main.pdf?_tid=65dd426c-88cf-11e6-9b0b-00000aacb360&acdnat=1475433683_e722fc4b603847c34ae531f280e92d69

 

Sep 252016
 

I believe the style that a parent uses to raise their children may have a tremendous impact upon that child, whether socially or mentally. The style can definitely affect the way their children act or react within the society. It can surely affect their children’ perspectives, values, and opinions. As Baumbrin mentioned in his study, the children that were raised by authoritative parents are more mature and responsible most of the time, I totally agree with his approach however it all depends on the child’s sex, personality, and attitude. An effective way that a parent can raise their child/children efficiently is by first observing their children’s personality and attitude and then they will be able to determine which style to use that would fits their child’s personality. I also believe that permissive style can be effective depending on the child, and it can also be ineffective based on the child. Furthermore, I can infer that various styles that parents use to raise their child differs based on the stages they are (infancy, adolescence). One style can be efficient for someone in their childhood but not in their adolescence. The style that once was efficient for a child may not always be for that child when he is in his adolescence.

 

Parenting Styles- The Big Picture

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Sep 252016
 

The article I choose is about the various parenting styles and their effects upon a child. The authoritarian, authoritative, and permissive styles originated and defined by Baumrind in a longitudinal study (1967, 1991). Baumrind discovered that preschool children raised by authoritative parents were the best adjusted. The author elaborates on these various styles and how each of them differs from one another. Each parent raises their child/children a way depending on their personality, or their children’ personality. He mentioned authoritative, authoritarian, permissive, and uninvolved parents’ perspective and how each parenting style has tremendous impact upon the children. Children raised by authoritative parents were eager to learn, they were way more mature and responsible than the ones who were raised by authoritarian parents. Children raised by permissive, and authoritarian parents were not very pleasant to be around, they were aggressive; they were very immature; they had difficulty controlling their impulses and were disobedient and rebellious when asked to do something they do not desire. He mentioned that as children move into school, the parent-child relationship change- high rates of divorce, maternal employment can have positive as well as negative effects on children. Apart from these other styles LeMaster lists five other parenting styles (the martyr, the pal, the police officer, the teacher-counsellor, and the athletic coach) that correlate to the one he discussed in the article. He presents a table that describes each parenting style in depth.

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Baumbrin talks about the parenting style that help children become happy about themselves and friendly with others and how these parenting styles affect children in their later life. The results of any given parenting style on any given child depends on many factors including the child’s age, sex, and temperament. Also the parents’ personality, characteristics, social- economic status and the like contribute to the child social, mental and intellectual development.  These generalizations are drawn from the study conducted by Baumrind (1967). Authoritarian parenting style generally leads to children who are obedient and proficient, but they lack of happiness,  social competence and self-esteem. They lack social competence as result of the parent’s choice of what the child should do instead of allowing the child to choose by him or herself. The children also rarely have options.

http://scholararticles.net/impact-of-parenting-styles-on-child-development/

 

 

 

 

 

 

Place of Hope’s Vision Printed

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Sep 252016
 

For this submission I will discuss some of the reading I have done that Place of Hope has printed as well as some of the ideas and advice that some writers of non-profit organizations have provided. Robert Tinajero, of Nonprofit Enterprise Center news letter, writes, “It is crucial for non-profits to not only have people with good hearts but people with the ability to translate important ideals into effective presentations of those ideals, whether written or spoken, and to create effective verbal, written, and visual argumentations.”(Tinajero 1) I think this is an interesting point because when I see media marketing for non-profit organizations I often see pictures of sad faces, or material benefits that a donator can win, like a T-shirt, and there is something lost in-translation that makes me not trust the ad. Here, Tinajero says that it is the ideal that must be focused on. A real vision and plan that people can look to as a goal or end result. To show, if not to manipulate, the person not believing this in not an ongoing problem if not for the greater good of helping those truly in need. Tinajero goes on to discuss the importance of discourse in non-profit writing. Writers for non-profits realize that written communication can be interpreted in different ways, so it is important that the message they are blasting out will reach the reader with the appropriate message that the writer intended, which is mush harder said than done. There are morals and values here, though. This is a charity for the betterment of mankind, so it is important to use persuasion, or rhetoric, in an ethical fashion. The rhetorical terms kairos and ethos are also used in this article to display more detail to the art of persuasive writing for nonprofit organizations. In reading a newsletter that Place of Hope created for their 15 year anniversary in 2014 I observed some of these techniques that Tinajero touches on. The age, race, ethnicity, nationality, and other factors of the child’s personal life are included to create this idea of kairosCreating a more detailed profile for each child enables the reader to get a better understanding and idea for why contributing, and contributing NOW, is so important. Place of Hope uses e-mail, flyers, meetings that require written speeches, signed letters, and so much more that are dedicated to creating critical and effective discourse for their cause. Through researching different literature and written communication that Place of Hope is continuously creating, I hope to come to a better understanding about how non-profit writing works, so that I can contribute to The Place of Hope cause to the best of my ability.

mini analysis

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Sep 232016
 

http://www.naeyc.org/content/what-research-says-gender-typed-toys

 

 

The attached visual is a simple one that could even go unnoticed if one walked into a classroom during playtime. The girl and boy appear to be of the same age, yet they’re geared to choose different toys to play with. The girl is already encouraged to take the home-making nurturer role while cradling the baby doll. Meanwhile the boy is playing with cars and trucks, leading us to assume he is being pushed to a more technological focus. This picture displays the gender appropriation even in the toddler age group. They aren’t yet old enough to know what gender is, but we show them which traits and activities are acceptable for boys and girls. This communicates further that there is a difference in which traits are expected. This expectation is socially constructed and I just find it interesting that we persist these norms.

This communicates the early-on perspectives that parents push on children simply based off of gender. This is seen in colors of items, toys, parenting styles, preferences, relatability, and even the amount of attention and sensitivity given. I nanny for a fraternal set of twins, one of each sex, and their toys are distinguishable by the toy type and the color. She’s reprimanded I feel more intensely for being rough and loud, whereas his same outbursts that are expected of a toddler are more often excused with a lighter consequence. It makes me wonder if we’re teaching sensitivity on an equal spectrum or if we’re creating different personality types because of sex.

The way babies play is crucial for the way that their minds frame things as they grow. If we’re encouraging toddler girls to nurture, yet we’re encouraging toddler boys to play rough and build, are we placing limitations or internal expectations for these children to grow up with? It’s a deeper discussion looking at what defines masculine and feminine. I’m simply wondering if the gender roles implemented on toddlers shape their personalities and mindsets as they grow older. Also, I wonder how the interactions between the parents and the children because of gender shape their skill sets, whether physical, mental, or emotional. A little boy is allowed to be rougher, or is told to not cry. Does he feel he needs to be rougher and not sensitive? The way we treat the babies teaches them how to relate to themselves. Growing up with a set of expectations and somewhat spoken rules per gender creates a lot of stress if the child doesn’t feel they fit within those restrictions also. It’s interesting to watch these interactions also through different families and see what remains consistent and what changes based on their upbringing preference.

Our environment shapes us

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Sep 232016
 

 

 

 

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I choose this quote from Albert Bandura because it corelates to my topic. Although I am not quite sure what topic to choose, I will lean towards Albert Bandura social cognitive theory to explain  how environment shapes who we are, our attitude, personality and our perspective about what we value, our beliefs and disbeliefs our perspective about life itself. In his social cognitive theory, Albert Bandura mentioned the Triarchic Reciprocal Causality in which he elaborates 3 factors behavioral, personal and environmental. I like the quote because it relates to humans in general because if we were to rely solely on the effect of our own actions to inform us what to do, we would be doomed at times. We definitely need people who surround us to help us at times whether a family member or a friend or a mentor to help us through out the way. That is i definitely like Albert Bandura’s approach about learning which is a social cognitive process, we learn through our social interactions with others we develop. I would like to explore in a topic of my interest.

 

 

 

Sep 222016
 

Women would go to bizarre extremes in order to lose weight. This is the case with many women in china who are introducing parasites into their bodies in order to lose weight before they go on job interviews. This image show how disgusting and uncomfortable would it be having theses creatures in side of a person’s body. These parasites will consume most of the food a person eat and it will continue to grow up to 30 feet in length. Not to mention the different types of diseases these worms can spread in someone’s body. In different situations tapeworms can reach different parts of the body such as: the brain, the intestines, and any other parts that the worm can hatch their eggs to keep reproducing. There are many cases reported in which women will use other methods to reach their weight goals such as, eating their placenta, anorexia, bulimia, using enemas and laxatives, restricting calories or obsessed with exercising, But swallowing an animal which most of us try to keep out of our lives is just insane.

The thought of just imagining how big this parasite can grown in someone’s body is repulsive and nauseating. This worm will reach someone’s body as an egg and than it will continue to expand similar to the toys that kids put in water over night and by the morning they are blown up and look like the real animal. It is just gross! The man that is holding the tapeworms looks like he is in disbelieve that people are really ingesting these animals in order to lose weight.  The seriousness of this matter and the importance of awareness can also be seen in his face. He reflects that the public needs to understand that they can have these worms in their body and not even know about it, and this is why it is important to learn about them in order to avoid consuming them unknowingly and if people are trying to purposely use this as a diet method to get well informed of the consequences of introducing this parasite in their body. Understanding the reproduction of these parasites is also very important, depending on how many female parasites a person digests, these animals can reproduce millions of eggs in a person’s body this will make the process of getting rid of the parasite much difficult.

Last but not least,  although a person might experience some weight loss from consuming these creatures the results will not make such a great difference in a person’s size, since they can only reach the growth already mentioned. A person will jeopardize their heath in order to achieve a quick fix but at the same time forgetting that these creatures will survive in their bodies of the minerals and vitamin once the person stops eating. At the end, the person will become malnourished achieving not a glamorous look but instead they will look like a zombie, defeating the purpose of why the person wanted to lose the weight in the first place.

 

 

 

 

Roundworms

http://www.couriermail.com.au/ipad/women-eat-worms-to-lose-weight/story-fn6ck45n-1225980074849

Sep 202016
 

All throughout this week, I’ve been trying to think of ways that i can write about what i was originally thinking. That would be, the importance of decision making throughout our lives. This topic led me to a book about propaganda and how politics, the media, and theories regarding different aspects of life help to guide us on what decisions we make, especially when it comes to voting.

Well, i think i’ve come up with the ultimate conspiracy theory about Hillary Clinton that seems negative at first but may in fact persuade me and other leftist non supporters of hers to vote for her. The conspiracy has to do with her failing health.

As a hatter of the establishment “democratic party”, in which i believe strongly that the DNC along with HC and her charity, rigged the primary against Bernie Sanders so that she would win while utilizing serious voter suppression, I find a lot of logic in many conspiracies against the democratic nominee. among these conspiracies is one about her failing health. Now i’ve heard news programs on 1290AM WJNO, which happens to be a right winged conservative news program on the radio, talk about HC’s most recent public medical incident. After weeks and weeks of mainly right winged conservative suggesting that HC’s health is failing and may be unfit to hold the office of president, she took a major stumble on camera while entering a van. The footage is incredibly convincing that she has some serious health condition that may very possibly impact her as she is our commander in chief, assuming that she wins the race for president. with the incredibly low percentage rate of voters in the united states feeling that HC is a trustworthy candidate for president, i’ve read in an article on Red Alert Politics that many people on both the right and left feel that many conspiracy theories about HC are actually more believable than HC herself. the idea that she may have more serious medical condition(s) than the pneumonia that her campaign has been saying, is becoming more and more real to a number of voters. After all, there are serious marks against her trustworthiness when it comes to lies she has told to congress about her email server (wether it is important or not, she absolutely lied to congress about “classified information”, along with numerous pieces of evidence regarding bengazi, along with her overall flip flopping on important social issues like gay rights and liberties taken away from African Americans through oppressive laws that she supported and were put in place when her husband was president, not to mention all of the trade deals for weapons that coincided directly with donations from foreign countries to her political foundation that proves that we are making a fortune of the conflicts overseas… I won’t get into this all now).

Anyway, the conspiracy theory regarding her failing health is what i will be focusing on because it boils down to a lot more simpler fact: Hillary Clinton may be extremely close to dying, and it may be her hail marry. Her final attempt to make everything right, as she has most obviously had to sacrifice many of her personal ideals in order to further her political career.

Like many other “conspiracy theories”, it’s far fetched. It may not be true. After all, Hillary Clinton is only 69 years old. But 69 years is no spring chicken. In fact, there have been a large number of famous individuals that have died, just in 2016, at relatively young ages (as in at or close to 69). Therefore, is it not crazy to think that Hillary Clinton may have some fatal illness that will take her within the next few years? that is not crazy to me. It is this reason that gives me a half hearted hope for a hillary clinton precedency (which is a far more and far stronger hope than i had before i came upon this idea). Before now, i have thought that hillary clinton is working for hillary clinton and those corporations and foreign countries that have helped to put her at the top. It is this idea that makes me and a lot of other anti hilary voters (especially millenials) infuriated because i have felt that all she will do at the top is put her donors first and ensure that crony capitalism and a war oriented nation prevails throughout the next generations. While this, to me, is a totally realistic opinion of someone who isn’t counting herself out, given the past 20 or so years of political positioning, the idea that she may be on her last leg gives me hope that her presidency may actually be a giant F U to her unfair and unapologetic political donors, be it large american corporation dodging taxes or the female and LGBT oppressive regimes that have positioned her at the top through gigantic campaign contributions and contributions to her private “Hillary Victory Fund”. Maybe, just maybe, her values have stayed secure in her heart, as i can’t imagine my own growing too far from my own, throughout an incredibly shady political career. Perhaps, in her final years, she will do true good for her constituents.

I’ve read a few articles in the past that i need to find (or find equivalents of) that suggests that there is an even bigger conspiracy theory regarding the office of president that has been around ever since JFK has been in office (and assassinated for his beginning of opening the theory wide for all of the nation to see). This conspiracy is that there is something, or someone, or some people, that are completely in control of our nation. they control the media, they control the social issues, they create social problems, and right now, they control the race of the presidency. The most evident example of this conspiracy theory is President Obama’s entire presidency. When Barack was running in 2008, he ran on the promise of change. He was a young and fresh man to the political stage and he took the presidency with suave and swagger, not knowing completely of the volatile nature of the office.

this volatile nature can be imagined especially when thinking of michelle obama’s speech during the Democratic convention in 2016 when she said that her and Barak’s first and foremost goal was to make sure that their children were not put in harms way. She of course described the difficulties of being the “first children and family” to the president of the united states, but it could also reference their fear of losing their lives or their children’s lives during the obama presidency because of Barak’s position on some specific areas. they were doing the best that they could for their nation, while also adhering to some serious rules regulating what exactly he stood for, in some areas.

Anyway, the people loved this senator from chicago because he spoke of change. Social change, economic change, and international change. These were the topics of concern for that day, and they are even more so the topics of concern today. now at the end of his presidency, we find ourselves in a somewhat better place economically, but socially and internationally, we have dug ourselves deeper into volatile situations. perhaps some of this has to do with our economic standing, but i cannot see how it all does. Yes we know that war makes money. It has been proven in every war since WWI that we make money on war. but this can’t be the only thing in the world that promotes real and substantial economic growth. Why can’t positive changes socially help us to make economic gains? it is because it costs more money from other sources, that is large multination corporations and giant hedge fund managers and big time CEOs of huge corporations and banks.

We are making money on war right now. We are literally selling weapons to ISIS. We could possibly halt ISIS all together by invoking a weapons embargo. whether this would work or not, we would stop making money on the destruction that is going on in the east. Therefore, we keep selling. BUT if hillary clinton has nothing to lose, and because she has so much experience in dealing with these atrocities, she seems to be in a perfect position to do the right thing by stopping these war crimes in a time when the United States in on an incline, financially. and some of the financial burden will be put onto walstreet, and that is something that the people at the top making bank off of tax dodging corporations are unwilling to allow. Therefore, this act will not be agreeable with the powers that are making fucking gigantic fortunes. Think about it, if you knew your last day was coming soon, would you make decisions that bettered the future of mankind, or would you make decisions that benefitted the few privileged people that run things now, and dictate the horrible fate of a huge number of people not only in the united states, but of innocent people all overt the world?

I don;t think that Hillary Clinton has a solid plan for every major problem in our future, but i think she can (and i hope and pray that she will) make a difference regarding the bombing of foreign countries across the sea and the natural health of the people in this country. In my paper, I will make a list of all of the possible super trusts that are not in favor of the major populous of this country and run things now, that hillary might be able to back stab while she is president, knowing that this is her last chance to make a true, positive difference in the country that she has spent over 30 years being a servant of. I will study her past positive contributions in order to point to reasons why she may be taking this particular position, and i will also, obviously, point to other conspiracy theories that seem to follow a more realistic train of thought than that of the Hillary Clinton campaign and HC herself. I may also try to find other people in history that have made serious sacrifices and how close to their times of death that these sacrifices were made. I will also outline conspiracy theories regarding the JFK assassination and conspiracies regarding the Obama presidency, in regards to his inability to change some things that he had originally hoped to accomplish.

Sep 142016
 

My topic, I’m thinking, is going to be around decisions and decision making throughout our lives from early on in our lives all throughout our adulthood. It’s going to include the evolution of our decisions throughout our lives, i.e. How much control we have over our decisions throughout our lives, the varying degrees of how our decisions impact our lives and the lives of those around us, consequences and hind sights of the decisions that we make, rushing into rash decisions vs highly calculated decisions and everywhere in between, and the severity of impact of our decisions and how it correlates with our age or, more importantly, where we find ourselves in our life.

The articles that I’ve read have been heavily based on enhancing our decisions making process in order to make the best decisions possible. Many of them have focused on group/team decision making and conversations that the teams have surrounding decisions that need to be made. I would like to focus more on personal decisions and the evolution of them along with the impact they have on our lives, and i can see ways of utilizing the team decision making process and applying them to that concept. among the practices of effective decision making is avoid confusing discussions that detracts us from the decision by laying blame on anything or anyone in a predicament that we find ourselves in. it’s more important to focus on the situation and decision that needs to be made. this can obviously apply to a group decision  but can definitely also apply to a personal situation. in my writing, i want to investigate how getting lost in details and blame can effect our decisions, be it positive, negative, or not exactly one or the other.

I have also read the idea that the decisions that we make are a reflection of the values that we hold. This holds up best when the decisions are carefully calculated and all options are weighed. This can bring into the conversation, decisions that we end up regretting, as they may have been made in ignorance of all of our values our values. Perhaps they only take into consideration our value of pride, or what ever, and ignore more core values that we were ignoring because we were so caught up in oner things.

One of the articles brought me to a book that i bought from amazon. The book is about propaganda and how we are coerced into making some decisions through that process. this idea seems totally relevant to the time that we live in and i am thinking that this prospect may play more of a role in my topic than i had originally thought. I will only know once i get the book and start reading.

 

I tried linking some websites to this but it pasted the entire article. . .

My ‘Humanities of STEM Study’

 Posted by on Wed, 9/14 at 11:57am  Uncategorized  No Responses »
Sep 142016
 

Despite the fact that I am a history and philosophy major, and that I love the humanities far above all other academic fields, nearly all of my college friends are STEM majors. So, being surrounded my STEM talk so frequently, I have somewhat of a knowledge and appreciation for the sciences myself, and above all, space exploration fascinates me in that it lies at the forefront of scientific knowledge and human historical progress.

Space exploration, past, present and future, is a widely discussed topic and there is certainly no shortage of material on the subject. In my opinion, among the most interesting and groundbreaking figures in modern space exploration technology is Elon Musk, a South African born Canadian-American businessman known for Pay Pal and Tesla Motors. In the aerospace technology field, he has broken onto the scene as the CEO, CTO (Chief Technology Officer) and founder of SpaceX, a private company which strives to make space travel cheaper and more efficient. Space X currently has a contract with NASA that allows the private corporation to deliver cargo to the International Space Station (ISS). They use the Falcon 9 rocket, innovative in that the first stage of the rocket is fully reusable, and actually lands remotely after delivering its cargo to the ISS. Here’s a short video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RPGUQySBikQ.

But I think it’s safe to say that when a contemporary thinks of space exploration, he or she finds herself anticipating Mars colonies, or at least a “Mars Landing” similar to the moon landings of the late 60’s and early 70’s. And while an actual trip to Mars may still be only a very remote and distant prospect, not to come into fruition until much later in this century, geologists, biologists, and many other varieties of scientists are already busy anticipating the possible pitfalls and stumbling blocks of such a journey, while not neglecting the potential rewards. For example, while putting together a scholarly paper on some of the chemical composites on Mars, scientists Robert Pellenbarg, Michael Max, and Stephen Clifford still put human colonization at the center of their study http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1029/2002JE001901/full. Everywhere, or at least very frequently, the question of Mars colonization seems to be at the forefront of forward thinking people’s minds when it comes to space exploration, both among the laymen and specialists. But Mars isn’t the only celestial body in our solar system to attract a disproportionate amount of attention. Europa, speculated to contain huge amounts of water beneath its icy surface, is a serious candidate for further unmanned NASA missions http://www.jpl.nasa.gov/missions/europa-mission/. Titan, too, is famous among space enthusiasts for its liquid methane and ethane lakes, which unsurprisingly has captured the imaginations of many. Some believe the conditions on Titan are similar to those on early earth. Pluto, recently, was the subject of talk after pictures were taken of it by the New Horizons probe when it flew past the dwarf planet on July 14th , 2015, providing us for the first time with detailed photos of the planet which since 2006 has been the subject of much “debate”.